Laughing All The Way

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Ever since Saturday night when I found out about my sister reading a post and being all upset about it, I have been trying to recall what was in the post. Having just read it, I realized that I did the same thing I always do. I let her make me feel guilty over some imagined slight. I let her manipulate me into feeling like I had said something that crossed the line.

Yesterday I had a moment of clarity. When I first started blogging, I was doing so in secret. She and her husband found my blog because I checked from their computer. I forgot to delete it from the history and my brother-in-law went searching for it. I had asked them not to read, but they did. I thought I could be okay with their ominpotence but in the end, they were saying wildly inappropriate things in places and in front of people that just began to annoy me. Eventually I reasserted my request that they stop reading. Again, after saying they wouldn’t read, they did.

So, here I sat feeling very guilty and in the end, having now gone back and read the post, I can’t believe that I wasted the time and emotion on this whole thing. One of my petpeeves is when people take what I write on my blog and internalize it. I understand the feeling that sometimes someone else’s words are a perfect fit for what you are feeling, but for my sister to take what I wrote about me and make it about her, that just is the last piece of evidence that I need to understand that she is not the type of person that I can have in my life right now.

Mood rating: Blech.

OK somthing I read when I first started to blog and have since used to explain to people.

Even when I write about you, I am not writing about you but my reactions and feelings.

and if that does not work, tell her it is Your space, your mind and to grow up about it.

I have a friend that constantly thinks I’m talking about her on our blog or takes things that I say personally when they have nothing to do with her.  it’s completely obnoxious.

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